Private, locally scored quiz

Conflict style test for repair patterns

The Conflict & Repair Style test helps you map what happens after tension: pursuit, withdrawal, repair speed, clarity, and defensiveness. It is built for practical reflection and optional AI-assisted pattern language.

Who this is for

  • People who keep repeating the same fight loop.
  • People who want language for pursuit, space, repair timing, or defensiveness.
  • People reflecting on reconnection after tension.

FAQ

Is this only for romantic relationships?

No. It can apply to close relationships, friendships, work conversations, and family dynamics.

Does it label other people?

No. It focuses on your own pattern and avoids labeling partners, friends, or coworkers.

Can I use it for repair scripts?

The optional AI readout after completion can turn your scored pattern into practical reflection language.